gush.
This was going to be a regular Instagram or Facebook post, but the more I thought about it the more I was like "Nah, fuck that." This needs to be a full on blog post because I have too many thoughts about it. The main topic is: how can a person, male or female, in a committed relationship, take the time to gush, or fawn over a celebrity that they think is attractive, yet not put that same level of energy into gushing or fawning over the person they are in the relationship with? I’m sure most people express how attractive they think some famous person is. People are attracted to who they’re attracted to. Heck, I’ve done the same thing. I have never made any bones about how I feel about Jill Scott, Adele and Nia Long (among others). I have made my attraction to these celebrities known to my significant other. However, I also have no problem letting my significant other know that these celebrities do not hold a candle to her. And it’s true: I look at that as playful coupl...